^ I don't get to that point often. Trance for me is not a stable state, I go quite easily from one level of trance to another. I can be in a deep trance for a split second, then go back to a medium/light one, or conversely, go from being trance-ready but normally aware into a medium trance quickly s...

I'm Jewish, so you WP/14/88 people will just have to deal with the fact that you are sharing this site with multiple ethnic and religious groups, and a Jew/POC/whatever doesn't need your approval to join this site. If there were some kind of great Jewish conspiracy, I think I'd know about it, being ...

^ That was kind of what I was saying when I talked about equal opportunity in education. We are focusing on using Title IX to nitpick about funding of sports teams. Meanwhile, there are women (and some men) in the world being denied basic literacy education.

Describe how the experience of trance is, for you. How do you know the difference between waking life, and trance? For me, I think fully entranced and fully awake are two opposite ends of a continuum. The levels of the continuum blur into each other, but here is how they are for me: 1. Fully awake -...

I agree with you that feminism should be about choice. I don't identify as feminist, because I believe that too often, the mainstream of feminism makes it about restricting men and women, rather than about choice. There are two sides to the left. One is the liberal left, which believes in individual...

My Master is a Christian, I am a Deist and Jew. We're both into BDSM, and I'm into erotic hypnosis, which he is okay with. Hypnotism isn't a religion or a magical power, it's a rhetorical technique of influencing people, but it can't go against their personal conscience. You can be a Christian (or J...

Trying to cold read their sexual fantasies or what makes them orgasm could be an erotic idea. I think I've seen Derren Brown do something similar.

I don't want to reply to my own thread, but I just used it. Maybe the lack of responses comes from the fact that he tries to induce amnesia in all his files. Anyway, I didn't follow the amnesia suggestion because I didn't like it or trust it. There's nothing unsafe in the files, and they feel super-...

Has anyone used the cleaning slave file before? If so, what are the effects like? What does it mean that you will be directed by a strong Master? Is it a Master of your choice, or the file maker, or someone made up in your mind?

Why not ask him if he thinks it would be topping from the bottom for you to suggest a new activity to try (the hypnosis) that you think could solve the problem? Some Doms are happy to try new kinks that their submissives want, while others would prefer the submissives not to indulge any kinks that t...