Excellent Views, Guys! I've been a domiant woman since before I knew what that was exactly... I find that men in general, and submissive men in particular, respond better to an intellegent mixture of physical domination and psychological duress than to misplaced ego trips by so-called "professionals...
SW1123, Absolutely...what the others have said! Even a very good subject has trouble working with multiple trances and triggers all at once. Start slow with only one file, keep it simple, and progress slowly. Relaxation, repetition, and a real desire for on your part for the selected file to work ar...