Thank you Busenman, your answer certainly goes a long way to helping.
My main problem, is that I do not remember where I got the idea of the person listening over and over during the night originated from, and it did work with the first person who used the 2 main files they wished to explore.

Hi. Please can any one give me some advice on the use of the 'trig......' files? For example Trigslave, Trig Chastity, Trigorgasm, Trigfreeze...... I have read some people suggesting that the volume of the sudip when being used should be 'audible' but kept as low as possible, others suggest it shoul...