by MN_FriendlyGuy » February 27th, 2009, 2:34 pm
[color=blue]Blake, you're an excellent subject and yet you're unaware of it! I hope your posting will help others too.
Instinctively, you've discovered how unimportant evaluation is.
You've noticed that when you pull back (shifting your focus) to resume listening, you lose some of your relaxation. The reason you lose the relaxation is because [url=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Active_listening]active listening[/url] causes you to evaluate. And evaluation is a function of the conscious mind.
When you find your mind wandering - smile. Be happy about it. For most folks, it's a sign that their mind is doing what they want it to do - integrating concepts, ideas, emotions, memories and goals.
The direct answers to your questions are: Let your mind go where it wills; and yes, the 'wandering mind' you described in your posting is a sign of trance. [/color]
[quote="blakejsmith"]I've never been that great with hypnosis, and to this day am not sure what the ideal state is. Basically what happens now is I get extremely relaxed, don't want to move, and eventually my mind begins to wander. I believe this is a state of hypnosis, but am not positive. I guess my question (or two) is am I supposed to try and stay focused on the hypnotist or let my mind go where it will. Currently when I find my mind wandering, I try and pull it back to what is being said, but by doing that I also get a little less relaxed. My other question is this, is what I described above a state of hypnosis, or am I missing something. (there are times when my mind wanders that I'll miss minutes of what is being said).
Thanks in advance for your help.
Blake[/quote]