by HuntingWolf30 » May 4th, 2013, 4:49 pm
"confidence booster" is a file to help be more assertive, which is a primary thing for a dom. I've also been nervous in the dominant role and can say that confidence in one's self is essential. A sub can sense hesitation easily and it throws them off their personal groove. Planning a session out, while leaving a little room for ad-lib, helps.
I will say that if she is not a solid dominant personality, it won't be easy to change into one. This kind of stuff takes time and experience. Mentoring under another dom can be more helpful than any book, though some of the books help.
Good luck.