is there a file..

[echnieda]

that maybe I haven't found or someone has that fits my needs?

I kind of have a porn addiction. Not really an addiction, but I watch it more than I want to. I really don't want to watch it at all. I feel guilty because of my girlfriend..whatever. My question is, is there a file that makes you either not want to watch porn or just curb your urges? I'd love to know. thanks.

[User517]

There are a couple files which deal with chastity and the like, however they usually have the downside of either making you impotent, or making you more submissive.

I'm no expert, far from since I'm still kinda learning myself, but this would seem to me like one of those areas where you have an activity which is motivated by either desire or habit. If you try to prevent just that activity without changing the desire or habit, it may show itself in unwanted ways. But, if we try redirecting that desire, you may find yourself unable to do other things which are related, such as be with your girlfriend. A habit can be changed, but normally it needs to be something else which can give you the same feeling, or else that habit won't be a suitable replacement, and you may now have more problems.

If something like this were to be done, it would likely need to be a personal session with a skilled and trusted hypnotist who can target the specific motivations involved, and discuss places those impulses could be redirected to that you could agree with beforehand.

If this is a bit more than you wanted to get involved with, or were looking into this as more of a "it couldn't hurt to just see what is there" kinda mindset, what you might want to consider instead is to look for files which deal with self control or motivation. These kinds of sessions might help you in this case since you seem to want to stop, but are finding trouble making yourself. They also have little risk or demand involved, so may be more in line with the level of commitment you are willing to agree to. To totally change behavior often requires multiple repeat sessions over the span of a several months, but to make small, minor changes which empower the individual to willingly make decisions against those behaviors can be done much in a much shorter time.

On a more personal note, you should likely only consider anything like this if the relationship you are in has been intimate, and lasted more than a few months. If this is a lasting, open, strong relationship, and she seems like a fairly easy going person, a better option might be to make it something which you can do together. Now, I would assume that since you are posting here that you are over the age of adulthood in your country, and that she is as well. I would also assume that you are talking about mainstream pornography, and not anything too exotic (scat, shemales, animals, midgets, amputees, clown suits, ect. (and before anyone gets offended, I am not trying to make a joke here, just naming off some of the things that people might find erotic that others may be less open to accepting)), just so we're clear. You might want to see if she is even keen to the idea by trying something softcore while making out. It may not do much for you, but it might get her into the mood, open the subject for conversation, and redirect your desires to spending more time with her, and less time in front of a TV.