by Patch_Winter » October 26th, 2006, 10:34 pm
Being a furry is a lot like any other sexual orientation e.g.: gay, bi, straight, and then also includes its kinks from there. The only problem is: there isn't much along the lines of realization... furries aren't real.
I think it's mostly TV and cartoons and stuff that does it to people, or at least to me, but it's just as shrouded in mystery as what makes somebody turn out to be gay... maybe there's some genetics involved, and some conditioning over top, but nobody has successfully defined what creates the complex.
Some people are 'latent' and they're pretty much normal in their sexual desires, and sometimes entirely vanilla, and then they see some furry stuff for the first time and find they enjoy that in addition.
... Oh how I envy them.
Others are furry from the time they start really learning what sex is. That would be me.
One of the reasons it's such a sensitive issue is because 1. some furries think that they actually are animal on the inside and 2. the fact that their fantasy will never be realized makes them feel even shittier when they think that someone is trying to judge them, even if they're just looking for information. Also, furrydom is not a well-known deal, and there are indeed closet furries, who only have a proper presence online. Since we're such a minority, a lot of us feel really really isolated because no matter how strong of messages we send to people IRL, everyone remains fucking clueless, when all they would have to do would be a googlesearch or two.
But even for those of us who don't think that we're some kind of trapped animal spirits, it's still really shitty to want something that you can never properly have or become, unless you happen to be good and suggestible, which, we've found, virtually no furries who have found this site are.
Yeah, so that's my rant on what furries are, also feeling a little angsty about it right now, if you could tell.