by Nate80 » October 29th, 2013, 4:46 pm
It's possible, but imho, foolish. these are your balls we're talking about. cbt is one thing. getting to the point your body is giving you a safe word - and trying to ignore it, is ... unhealthy.
instead I'd suggest get a slow word, so your dom or whoever can ease off and you can naturally develop pain tolerance. you'll probably enjoy the journey more anyway.
but maybe set up a quick pain relief trigger to calm the pain to manageable levels after the session though. (don't use this in place of the slow word. pain is usually there for a reason, and more pain means bigger problem)
sorry to sound like a kill joy, but safe, sane* and consensual trumps all in BDSM :p
(*I've scripted lucid dreams... sane is .... malleable)