Help me train me wife, please!

[bear24]

I am basically a newbie to erotic hypnosis. I have been fantasizing about dominating my wife for years, and I have tried to self educate. My submissive wife and I have tried a handful of times, with mixed results. I'm thinking we have maybe succeeded 2 out of 5 attempts. Once with a purchased audio induction, and once on my own. Our biggest battles have been the length of time it takes for a proper induction, and she may not be as "in to it" as I am. Anyone have any tips for a faster induction, or how to build her enthusiasm?

[Fizbin]

So, to clarify, are you looking for something to strengthen a D/s lifestyle, or to enhance BDSM "session" type play, while leaving day to day life relatively vanilla?

It sounds to me more like the latter. In a case like that, if the issue is the lead time, what you could do is some upfront work - using files that embed a triggers for later use while out of state.

The Bubble induction, for example, leaves a trigger that with a few simple words will instantly put her back into a deeply obedient hypnotic state, and another phrase to pop her out. (Beware, however, the triggers are very well known, and has the potential to subject her to unwanted control unless other precautions are taken.)

[bear24]

Yes, your assumption is correct. Thanks for the tip. I'll have to try that. I really like the idea of having control over her. We already play with bondage, and she loves it. I want to add hypnotic control as another tool in my belt. I may like to add daytime play once I get good at it. Any tips, or suggestions at all are appreciated!

[bear24]

I just searched "bubble induction", which leaves me with another quick question. It looks like there are a few good ones, but none list in there description what the triggers are. Is it just going to be the simple "sleep" commancommand, or am I going to have to implant one of my choosing?

[Fizbin]

Generally, trigger words (for any file) are not published openly on the site because they could potentially take unwanted effect. It usually is NOT something as easily hit on by accident as "Sleep". :)

If you are a paid member, the scripts for many of the key files are available for inspection. From the script, you can record your own file, or just use it to trance with her interactively. Either of these gives you the ability to set any trigger you so desire. (This is one of the possible precautions I mentioned)

You could also learn the trigger by listening to the file yourself in such a way as to not go under (usually skipping through the file looking for the key areas).

Someone familiar with a file also might be willing to PM the trigger to you upon request.

[bear24]

Thanks for the help, next time I get a chance, I may try http://www.warpmymind.com/Files/1158/Bubble-Induction.php

If there is a better one, let me know... I'll be sure to let you know how it goes :D

[MN_FriendlyGuy]

I am basically a newbie to erotic hypnosis. I have been fantasizing about dominating my wife for years, and I have tried to self educate. My submissive wife and I have tried a handful of times, with mixed results. I'm thinking we have maybe succeeded 2 out of 5 attempts. Once with a purchased audio induction, and once on my own. Our biggest battles have been the length of time it takes for a proper induction, and she may not be as "in to it" as I am. Anyone have any tips for a faster induction, or how to build her enthusiasm?

Yes, bear24. I have a suggestion for building enthusiasm. Before I give that suggestion, here's a book recommendation I believe both you and your wife will enjoy:

[url=http://www.amazon.com/Look-Into-My-Eyes-Hypnosis/dp/1440449864]Look Into My Eyes: How To Use Hypnosis To Bring Out The Best In Your Sex Life[/url]

And now, the suggestion:

Part One - In the role of Dominant, you have the right to be told the needs and desires of your submissive. Establish this into your play... a time when she reveals. Pay attention and take ownership of those desires of hers. Part Two - As you satisfy YOUR desires, find ways to incorporate hers. Lead her to them as reward, for example.

It's deceptively easy, isn't it? As you subjugate the desires of a submissive you ignite fireworks.

[Aethelwulf]

been a while, I was curious how things were proceeding with you and your wife.

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i am curious how you get the person's name to appear in the quote on the new version of WMM

[OxyFemboi]

Professor Pig wrote
i am curious how you get the person's name to appear in the quote on the new version of WMM

Like this:

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[rw789]

Professor Pig wrote
i am curious how you get the person's name to appear in the quote on the new version of WMM




Like this:

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It's a little different from that but you're on the right track.

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