WarpMyMind

Hi lauramcan, good to see you again. Your take on being dominated as opposed to being submissive brings up a good point. Dominants have to be flexible, as it takes different methods with different submissives, based on why the person is submissive in the first place. There are no wrong answers, but there is sometimes incompatibility. Again, it goes back to that pesky communication thing... ;-)

I've noticed the thread has been quiet so I thought I'd say something. I'm also a female submissive and agree communication and compatibility are key. Hypnosis happened before I knew I was submissive, even though I probably always was a sub, just didn't add that as a label to my description of myself. Erotic hypnosis happened a few years ago with the files here, well before I had a real Master. Then came the on line Master. I might have missed the whole point of discussion here. But since you were making a call for female subs to stand up and be counted, I thought I would.

j

Hi everyone,
Just wanted to chime in as an other female submissive in the forum.
muriah

HypnoWraith wrote:So in your case, how did your interest develop? Did you start as submissive, and had the hypnosis aspect mixed in later, or were you into hypnosis first, and noticed your submissive side develop from there?

i started as a submissive and i didn't discover hypnosis until twenty years or so after discovering i was a submissive. It was strange because i discovered i was a submissive via my ex-husband's porn collection. As i looked at the models in bondage i realized that i identified with them and that i wanted to have the types of experiences the porn magazines were supposed to be portraying. This was strange because he was horrified at my reaction. Something about the behavior of wives versus the behavior of whores. Oh well...

traci

Bah, bonehead, he should have realized that it is better to have both in one package.

Lunn

That was definitely my thought. Before he reacted i was sure it would all be wonderful since he was obviously excited by bondage, he was hiding it from me because he must have feared i couldn't accept it, and i did not only accept it but wanted to be part of it. Searching for management has been much more difficult than i ever could have imagined.

traci

Perhaps. Of course, it all depends on the "managment" sought.

Lunn

well i'm put in too. i'm a submissive whos into hypnosis too but only recent got past reading story's but quickly fall fast for it

hmmm this not been active for ages oh well