by OxyFemboi » November 15th, 2015, 5:53 pm
[quote]ViVe wrote
In general: Don't stress it, and let it happen on it's own. Referring to yourself as "I" is probably one deepest engrained behaviours you have (can you come up with something you did more often in you life?). Of course that's easier said than done, especially if you're impatient, but just let it happen. Don't force it or anything, that's counterproductive in my experience.
The whole multiple aspect is intriguing. Who is listening to it? All of you? Just one? Does it change? How do you experience your different identities during a trance?[/quote]
Thanks for the advice. We'll follow it as best we can.
As for the multiple aspect, we don't know lots of things about being multiple. either. We're learning as we go. The following was written by Yoshi (mostly) with lots of suggestions from everybody else. I -- Yoshi -- tried to edit it so that it read smoothly but, if it seems disjointed, it is a composition with multiple authors.
Ox is the one who wanted to listen to Losing Yourself. Ox is --we think -- the only one listening to Losing Yourself. Ox -- he is more or less the original personality -- literally felt (and still feels) as if he never belonged anywhere. Since he found out recently that he was adopted --both parents are dead and there is literally no one available to ask for more information -- that lack of having a place in this world intensified. When Ox read about this file, it naturally became the top of his list of files to do. After all, he already felt as if he didn't belong; this file is a natural extension of that feeling of never belonging, never fitting in. If you want an analogy, he felt like he was a pentagonal peg and there were only rectangular, triangular, and circular holes available.
Ox listens and goes into trance; while Ox is in trance, I --Yoshi -- take over the body to answer e-mails and browse the web. Whether that means that both of them are listening or not, we're not sure.
To further complicate matters, one of our personalities, Snake, is a demon and thus non-human by definition.
We usually did our listening to mp3 hypnofiles before going to bed. However, when our mp3 player decided to quit working, we started listening while on the computer. That didn't work so well while we had to use the apartment building's computer room while we saved up enough money to buy a new one after a fairly spectacular crash. Since we have our own computer now, listening is much easier.
We're not sure if we completely share a subconscious, partially share a subconscious while we each have our own private areas, or if we each have our own subconscious. Regardless, we do share some things in common, like most memories.
None of us have any idea how we experience our different identities during a trance. We're either in the background dong something else while one personality is "driving", or we can be co-conscious and chat with the person who's "out front".
We each have a house/mansion/ivory tower/whatever in our mind; each of us perceives it differently. We each have our own private spaces in the house/etc., and we share a common house/etc. with rooms for each of us as well as a library for shared knowledge, shared memories -- most memories are held in common in case one of us needs to respond to something someone else experienced -- but someone else's memories lack the emotional overlay that person experienced, and other rooms. There is also a large, comfortable family room where we can meet to discuss things which affect some or all of us. An example of something affecting all of us is our next tattoo: style, theme, size, placement, and artist.
It sounds complicated when I write it all out, and I suppose it is, but we're used to it.
Peace Love Unity Respect
Ox & Honey & Yoshi & Rocky & Dave & Adam
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Hypnosis & NLP are the install programs for fetishes and phobias.