by Kharon » May 5th, 2007, 2:14 am
Honesty is crucial, especially if this is an important person to you. Hypnosis relies on rapport between the hypnotist and subject, and if they discover you have been lying to them about your plans, they may stop listening to you. Tell them beforehand exactly what you plan to do, and even while in trance, do not be afraid to remind them and continue asking them if it's okay. Make sure they have a way to let you know if they want to stop as well.
Having a script prepared can be a huge help, as they can look over and revise segments to what they like. Whether you get a script from the internet, or prepare one on your own, let your subject review the contents if you have any uncertainty about how much they will enjoy it. All of my significant scripts are reviewed by at least one of my subjects before I ever use it (outside of live testing, where the review is followed by a test).
And do not make her forget, unless she agrees to posthypnotic amnesia. Posthypnotic amnesia can be very kinky and fun, especially in hypno-slavery, but it must be within boundaries she enjoys, and you must respect all such boundaries. As an alternative to saying she will remember, try putting her memory or amnesia regarding the trance into her own hands, by saying she will choose what to remember and forget as she leaves the trance, but that if she forgets anything, she will remember that she made the choice to forget something.