jockrockslycra wrote:
Q. Does hypnosis work?
Yes. But this assumes you are working with a qualified hypnotist. Tapes/CDs/MP3s are very limited and often don't work well. The problem with recordings is that they attempt a one-size-fits-all, which just isn't a good fit for most people.
This is true, and false. Yes, the files are intended as on size fits all and a professional hypnotist working with you personally CAN and probably will do a better job but that doesn't mean that a file won't work for you. It's more of a one-size-fits most. Most people will respond, some won't, and if you don't respond to one there may be another similar file that does fit your needs better. Same is true with a professional hypnotist, some will do a better job of working with you than others and will, thus, get better results. Definitely look around for files/authors that seem to work the best for you, but good luck finding a professional hypnotist that can/will do all the things we do here. Sometimes you have to go with a second choice because you don't have a better one. Also, most of my files are free, not many free professionals out there.
jockrockslycra wrote:
Q. Why does everyone suggest paying money to see someone else?
Self hypnosis is good for generative change, suggestions for improvement to self. But are you hypnotised? How do you know? Getting taught self hypnosis is worthwhile and usually only takes one session.
Many people want to make other kinds of changes though. Then, help of a skilled professional is best. The trained hypnotist can see your 'blind spots', those things you don't notice. His/her skill can make the difference between years of trial-and-failure or success. Also, what you are noticing are symptoms. Is it the real problem though? Issues or symptoms?
The two are very different.
One actual issue may present several symptoms.
Here's a medical example:
Symptom: headache
Symptom: fever
Symptom: dry mouth
Symptom: runny nose
Symptom: blurry vision
Symptom: nausia
Symptom: aches in joints
In this case, dealing with many symptoms only hides the one real issue, bacterial infection.
A well trained professional will know how to find the actual root issue.
Self help CDs can't do this.
This seems like an oversimplification, most of us know when we have an infection and wouldn't be going to a hypnotist to fix it. However, yes, there are definitely reasons to seek out a trained professional(assuming they're good) a hypnotic CD can just cover over your fear of say mice rather than actually curing it and that may cause issues later on. But if you just want to find extra motivation to eat healthy then odds are the professional won't be able to do much more than a CD. If you have a SERIOUS issue, find a professional, preferably a psychiatrist who works with hypnosis because a certified hypnotist just means they know how to hypnotize, not that they are any more knowledgable about serious mental issues. Personally, my order of preference for any given situation would be to go to a trained psychiatrist first, a WELL certified hypntherapist second and then use a CD third but that depends on what I want from the experience because each of these options incurs a different level of effort and cost. If I just want to work on my abs I'd probably order a CD, if I had a childhood trauma or other issue I'd seek a psychiatrist.
jockrockslycra wrote:
Q. Where can I get a tape/CD/MP3 for _____?
Tapes/CDs/MP3s are not a good idea for changework. It can be compared to self-surgery. Listening to an MP3 for a phobia is like following a self-help recording to remove an appendix. But they can be fine for general self-improvement.
I would agree, a CD might not be ideal for a phobia, and I'd NEVER use one to work through an adult or childhood trauma. If I wanted to eat less or exercise more or do some of the other things we do on WMM a CD should be just fine, just find an author you like and a style you like and you'll probably get results. Oh, and if you don't find the topic you personally like then ask someone or comission a custom piece. Remember, what is done on WMM is recreational hypnosis, it's hypnosis for fun, or fantasy or for some change that you already desire. If you have a serious issue, or a file has a bizarre reaction, seek a professional.