This has been on my mind for a while now. So I am reaching out to this group to see if it helps me get my thoughts straight.
For some time now I have been thinking about hypnotizing my wife. Let me state that I would do this with her full consent. And that's where my first issue arises.
Although I have some files out here with some positive feedback, I do not feel very confident I can actually hypnotize her. Depending on her openness to the idea (still to be discussed with her) I am afraid it may be a total failure.
And since she has strong opinions on things, a strong negative opinion on hypnosis (there's indications she has them) makes it so much more difficult to be successful.
And I would really hate it when her first contact with hypnosis is negative. I really would like to have her experience something wonderful. We all know how wonderful trance can be.
So that's issue 1.
Second, I have to be honest, I am very much interested in using hypnosis (both as a hypnotist and subject) in our (sex) life. Now here it gets a bit trickier (assuming I get past the first hurdle).
Where does the line between leaving someone as they are, or gently moving them into a different direction, get crossed?
As an example, my wife loves to give head. But she hates the taste. So altering her perception of the taste in order to have her actually swallow, is that crossing the line or not. It probably is not when she agrees to try to change it. It probably is when it's done without her knowing.
Another example. She looks great wearing certain clothes (and I am not talking slut-wear, although that is fun too for play) but I just can not make her believe that. She will only see the flaws (like any woman I guess) and those make it impossible for her to enjoy that type of clothing.
So altering her perception of it, is that crossing the line or not?
So we come back to the first point. Anything I would try with her consent that fails would just make the whole experience bad.
Or am I completely wrong here?
I guess it boils down to insecurity and the fact I just want this to be a success.
So any constructive or experience based feedback is welcome.