by MN_FriendlyGuy » September 14th, 2015, 5:17 am
[quote="Sirath"]...Is there a file that could work on his bf that makes his bf submit and obey him while being more slutty and sexual towards him?[/quote][color=blue]
The first step for trance is desire. This truism applies as equally to trance for smoking-cessation as it does to trance for sex play.
There's risk if your friend proceeds when his BF lacks desire for the end result.[list]When someone's autonomy is challenged... when their sense of "self" receives a message that they need to change... there's a possibility that they'll rebel - maybe begin doing the opposite. The extremis possibility is that the BF will end the relationship.[/list:u]
Here's a weight-loss example from hypnotist Milton Erickson (Excerpted from [url=http://www.amazon.com/My-Voice-Will-Go-You/dp//\[url=(https?:\/\/[^\s\[]+):$uid\](.*?)\[\/url:$uid\]/i3933/\[url=(https?:\/\/[^\s\[]+):$uid\](.*?)\[\/url:$uid\]/i1354/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=144223/\[url=(https?:\/\/[^\s\[]+):$uid\](.*?)\[\/url:$uid\]/i253&sr=1-1&keywords=my+voice+will+go+with+you]My Voice Will Go With You - The Teaching Tales of Milton H. Erickson[/url]). In this example, trance reveals truth to the subject... their desire to be comfortable is stronger than their motivation to change.[/color][quote]A woman said she wanted me to do something about her weight. I looked at her fingernails. She had long, red fingernails. I think they're advertised as "Nails". You glue them on. They stick out. That amount of fat and those red fingernails!
I said, "I can help you, but you'll have to cooperate. You climb Squaw Peak."
She said, "At sunrise?"
I said, "Yes."
She said, "Well, I'd like some company."
I said, "You complain that your sixteen-year-old son is about a hundred pounds overweight. Take him along for company. Set a good example for him."
The next time I saw her she said, "You know, I don't believe I want to lose weight and I know my son doesn't. Do you mind if I stop trying to fool myself?"
I said, "Not at all."[/quote]