Okay, let me give you a better perspective. I didn't have much time yesterday so here it goes:
bobbyflemming wrote:I know a lot of people have hypnosis fetish and I read all these success stories and fancied a dabble (Im a straight guy that wanted to know what all the fuss was about) but I can't seem to gauge if any of this is actually real.
It is real. It will bring out the gay tendencies in you or turn you.
bobbyflemming wrote:Will listening to these hypnosis files change me in any way, is there a certain trick to listening to them or do i just put on headphones and relax?
Get yourself in a quiet area where there aren't any distractions, you have ample time and you won't be disturbed. Dark room would be better but you can use an eye mask to make it darker or use VR glasses for a better effect. Put the headsets in, relax and let go. It may take some practice to let go, but the more you concentrate on the words and let everything else go ... the better it is.
bobbyflemming wrote:Are the files for straight-to-gay as dangerous as everyone says or do people say this to perpetuate the fetish (does the danger make it a bigger turn on?) Can anyone give me an honest answer before I start down what may or may not be a life changing process
Depends on the person, but, yes - they do have an affect. I was a doubter, but no more. That said, I also kept listening. Once you start, it is hard to want to stop. If you want the life change - it'll happen. There will be changes - it depends on how willing you are and how bad you want it (sounds like you have the desire). I can say that the more I listened, the more I warmed up to the idea and the more HOT it got as well as it was (and is still) a huge turn on.
bobbyflemming wrote:Some background information:
I identify as straight but i watch gay/tgirl porn sometimes and everytime i orgasm I feel terrible, like the first thing i do is immediately close any tabs and just pretend nothing happened at all and i just feel this dull feeling in my stomach. On the flip-side, when I'm horny I can have gay thoughts and I feel great, Also, I could never make a post on a website like this after I had orgasmed, I have to be at least slightly aroused to be comfortable to even ask such a question.
Dude ... you already have somee attraction to guys. Yes, it is HOT when you are aroused, but the orgasm does dampen it (at least at this time in your life) - that's normal. It's normal to feel weird or that it is wrong since that's what we have been taught all of our lives. In time, your arousal to gay porn will intensify. Eventually, the orgasms won't leave you empty. This will happen whether you listen or not.
bobbyflemming wrote:When I'm feeling 'gay' I want to be like this all the time, I love the idea of not being attracted to women at all and letting this side of me be 100% in control. But when I've orgasmed I panic that I'm falling deeper and I won't be able to ever return and I put my guard up. I am attracted to females and I have sex with my wife without issue, but I can't shake the feeling that I really should "unlock" myself.
That's how it started with me. It is a pretty HOT feeling. It is natural to want to explore the other side of yourself. I have no regrets. I'm still having fun with it. You will naturally embrace it more as time goes by.
bobbyflemming wrote:I have paid and downloaded CFG, heterosexuality eraser and after-cum queer amongst others, I'm just a bit scared to listen to them
Are you scared - or scared and excited? If there's any excitement, then you're going to listen at some point in time.
bobbyflemming wrote:I spoke to an actual hypnotherapist a year ago and he told me that his sessions would reinforce how good it felt to be gay until I no longer felt regret and embraced it - but he warned me that once I finally managed to orgasm thinking about guys without any shame or bad feelings that there would be no turning back. I like to think that watching gay porn has been a manageable little fetish all these years but what if the guilt has been the only thing stopping me from having encounters with strange men?
I think you will find that it is more than a fettish. There's something in you that wants this to come out otherwise you would not be here and posting this (and you would not have purchased the files).
bobbyflemming wrote:1. Do these files work and would they work for me?
Yes they work and yes they will work on you if you give it enough time. It also depends on how hard it takes for you to go under.
bobbyflemming wrote:2. Do you guys recommend that I go through with it and see what happens?
I think you already decided to do it - you don't need permission from others -
. Sounds like you've got nothing to lose at this point.