river12 wrote:JDziewaltowski wrote:So, is there anything I can do to help the process of going into a trance? Because I've tried several files on here, and only 2 of the 12 I tried had any (and very slight) effects.
Any suggestions, or is the saying "Not everyone can be hypnotized" true?
HELP!
I've explained more about my problem in my journal entry:
http://www.warpmymind.com/modules.php?name=Journal&file=display&jid=3054
I find i go under more on certain authors and files.
but bear in mind even if you have gone into trance and listened to file unless your willing to do what the file says before listening then that file wont make you do it.
Hynotising someone to do something they dont want to do will not work.
TV commercials often hypnotise people into doing things they didn't want to do. They change your WANTS. It is called persuasion, and through indirection, confusion, and repeat conditioning of suggestions, subjects can do 180 from previously held positions.
If you can get a person to sit in an easy chair, grab their attention with some sex object model person, and drone a message into her head, in no time at all she's phoning the number on the screen to order one. It is something that she didn't want and doesn't need and cannot afford in her budget. Try looking at HSN (home shopping network) channel sometime, with easy flex-pay payments for the next few months -- get two and the shipping is free on the second one.
Hypnosis requires compliance. Laws prevent the hypnotist to force a reluctant subject to comply, so that leaves the subject herself must agree up front to comply.
The hypnotist suggests that you do something. Either you do it or you do not. If you did it, then you complied. If you did not do it, then you refused to comply. The entire success is 100% in the subject's hands.
The skill of the hypnotist involves keeping your interest in complying.
If their timing is way off they risk boring you or irritating you. Neither of those solicits compliance. Hypnotists might have a bad off-putting speech style; the subject gets distracted by the speech and never follows the words.
"Street Hypnosis", "Conversational Hypnosis" and "Instant Hypnosis" regularly put people into trance in seconds without any prior training in trance. It takes nothing more than subject compliance to succeed.
One has to be engaging to get the subject to comply.
There are some files here which I cannot enjoy listening to. A few minutes or less of the voice sample and I hit the eject button.
Some people go on and on. More is not better.
My own files assume two things:
(1) Listeners have trained to go into trance easily by other files before, or
(2) By repetition of suggestions, listener can be trained to go into trance easily.
The files then are built with suggestions which promote repeated listening over a couple of weeks.
Type 1 listeners begin getting the benefits from the first listen, and type 2 newbies catch up within a couple of weeks, give or take a few days.
It is not necessary for me to eat up the subject's time unnecessarily. Either they are going to comply or not. Droning on and on and on is not going to change their decision, but chewing up their time is disrespectful and likely to invoke a negative response.
If you have tranced and know a trigger phrase to get nearly instant recall of the deep trance state of mind rapidly, just say it before hitting the play button. Who needs 20 minute inductions if a generic trigger is available?
It helps if one actually wants what the file advertises. Idle curiosity is not enough incentive to spend a lot of time for a dubious result. Skill in writing a file description alters the subject's expectations of return on investment of time and effort put into listening.
I find applying the rule of public speaking helps:
(1) Tell them what you are going to tell them,
(2) Tell it to them,
(3) Tell them what you just told them.
The file description is 1, the file body is 2, and a key points summary at the file end helps burn in the suggestions as 3. Repetition is important. Expectations are important, Truthfulness is important. Giving what you said you would is important.
Ultimately hypnosis by remote is possible but there are lots of things which could go awry on both sides. If pre-recorded files don't do it for you, then perhaps try phone hypnosis or go to the office hypnosis.
Once a person makes a breakthrough to deep trance it becomes easier. Practice makes perfect.
If somebody doesn't want to be hypnotized, chances are they will not be.
Like anything else in life, if you want the benefits, then you have to practice until you get good at it.