by Lissar » August 20th, 2007, 1:57 pm
There's no shame in not having sex at age eighteen. Or nineteen. I didn't have sex until I had already turned twenty. My advice is not to do it for the sake of having done it. Have a party, be yourself, meet some girls. Don't worry about sex or anything like that. I've found myself very turned off by guys who clearly are trying to hook up or get in my pants, even if it's at a party, and everyone seems to be hooking up. If you seem to be looking for sex, then girls might feel on display. Instead, as I said before, be yourself! Get to know these new people, and who knows? You might find yourself on a few dates, and then maybe in the sack.
Again, though, I hadn't had sex until January, age twenty. Relax, no one is going to think any less of you. I know it can be kind of tough because people these days sort of assume that every 18-year-old guy has had sex, but when I've actually asked around, I've learned that a lot of my guy friends had never had sex before. I have a twenty-one-year-old guy friend who still hasn't. It's life. If you're really scared that you're going to end up as a forty-year-old virgin, I was scared of that, too, but it's going to happen for you.