by sandy82 » June 1st, 2005, 10:09 am
The key word in Lord_Mizaru's first post is "interpret."
This is one reason, Ria and Dan, that people often see the same thing differently. Memories come in a variety of flavors...among them, facts and emotions.
Let's say that two teen-aged friends, walking along together on a sunny day, see an approaching German shepherd that's not on a leash. The first smiles. The other runs.
The family of the first, when he was a small child, had a well-trained German shepherd who was patient with a very young member of the family. The child and the dog became attached to each other.
The other friend, at the age of two, was severely bitten by a German shepherd who had never been around children...and didn't like a little stranger pulling his tail.
The facts stored in the friends' minds are basically the same. They recognize a German shepherd.
The emotional memories of the two friends are entirely different. Hence, the warmth on the one hand and the fear on the other.
Multiply by the millions the cerebral connections between facts, memories, emotions, beliefs in two different heads; and you wind up with two friends walking along together on a sunny day.
If you want to see differing viewpoints on the same situation, watch a rural Kansan visiting New York City for the first time....when he orders a cheeseburger in a kosher take-out.
Vary the fact-memory-emotion-belief patterns enough, and you can wind up with opposing armies on a battlefield.