by Undisclosed » August 7th, 2006, 8:41 pm
To reiterate what Winstin says, the desire definitly has to be there and be genuine for full effect. The hypnosis merely facilitates the desire's embedding into your subconscious. Of course, even if there is doubt, one can use variously techniques to wear this down into dust. The most basic of these is continually listening to the files and immersing yourself into the DL culture. This constant exposure will numb your anxiety and apprehensions to the topic, further facilitating subconscious embedding.
If you are worried about losing control, then clearly you think that it's possible. However, example after example, including myself, have proven it's not. You only lose control if you think you can. If you don't, then nothing unwanted will happen. You must not doubt yourself, if you want hypnosis to really work its magic. This is probably the hardest thing to learn, but if you learn it well, you will have benefits all across the spectrum of your life.
At the same time, it often takes a while for the brain to learn the desired behaviour and connect the approprate neurons together. You can't expect instant results all the time, even with full focus. In the cases where it has worked instantly for people, it's usual that they had been thinking about the behaviour for a while previously, so it had already started to be formed. In any case, hold fast and eventually you'll get what you want.
Just be careful you don't start deluding yourself though. Going too far like that has created many a serial killer and suicide bomber among other things. Remember that you are changing yourself here and out of self-respect, you should change yourself only for the better.