Curious...

[Linja]

Hey, I was just curious...

Can you guys put into words what it is about Diapers and/or incontinence that appeals to you? I know it's hard to describe why you like something, but could you try? I'm really fascinated.

I also just wanna say that it's cool that you can be open with your sexual tastes, and don't think that I am or am going to judge you in any way on this one. I may just try it myself one day...

-Linja

[Cracked22]

for me it's just something that is comforting...can't really describe it...

it's like peeing in the shower - just nice to have a wee somewhere else but a toilet..i have to go now, so i will go now..

i'm sure in a way it reminds people of their infancy, and the happiness they recall from those days...just nice not to have to worry about things.

[Linja]

Fair enough, but I think I'll stick to taking a piss in the toilet. But I guess I can understand the niceness of not having to worry about it.

-Linja

[cindy_c42]

Hi all,

Being diapered is one of my kinks. Diapers go along really well with bondage since you don't need to get loose to use the bathroom when you have one on. This is a I think part of the loss of control aspect already mentioned. They make nice padding for a straightjacket's crotch strap too.

I also like mild humiliation. Being made to wear and use my diapers is very useful in that regard too. Especially when they show under my french maid's uniform.

And wearing a diaper out in public under my normal male clothing is very interesting. I always wonder who can tell I'm diapered. I know most either cannot or don't care, but the doubt puts me into a very submissive sort of mind state I enjoy.

just a humble sissy maid's opinions,

cindy

[lihp]

I enjoy the use of a diaper as a stress reliever, the way to take off from the normal weight of what I am doing. Being a 3rd year college student, I am constantly under stress from classes, exams, etc. Wetting and messing in diapers is in a way something less to think about, a responsibility lost.

And the warmth feels good from flooding the diaper.

Unfortunately, living in the dorms, its hard to find a time to be free to do this. Its not like there are others like me at the college.

[aj]

It's actually not the incontinence and nappy part that facinates me.

I just love acting and thinking like a little kid. Nappies and incontinence just help that feeling.

Note to other people that do it for the same reason as I do. If you want to have fun doing kids things, it's a lot more fun mucking around with kids. I always babysit my cousins and just play lego with them while watching a movie and I have heaps more fun then wearing and using nappies.

Of course, I'm not a sexual nappy or incontinent person. Mines all stress relief.

[aj]

Just to add to that.

In other words, it'll probably not be fun for the sexual abdls people.

[JungleCat]

Hey, I was just curious...

Can you guys put into words what it is about Diapers and/or incontinence that appeals to you? I know it's hard to describe why you like something, but could you try? I'm really fascinated.

I also just wanna say that it's cool that you can be open with your sexual tastes, and don't think that I am or am going to judge you in any way on this one. I may just try it myself one day...

-Linja

Just try it. Ive found that it truly cannot be explained, but those that are open minded enought to try find that it is enjoyable on some level.

[Dannyboy01]

It is hard to describe. Just the thought of wearing a diaper makes me nervious yet some how it relaxes me. I love to use Depends because they are very noise, making very awear I have one on. I have had major success with the "always wet while wearing a diaper" file. As soon as I slip one on, my bladder relaxes and urine flows freely. It is very pleasurable. My urinary track mussles are always relaxed while wearing a diaper amd I kind of have a constant wetness at the tip of my penis. Yet when out of diapers....No problems holding my urine. I just find it pleasuable

[Linja]

Cool, and why do you enjoy that feeling? Is it something you only do in private? Do others know about it? I'm interested.

-Linja

[Dannyboy01]

Do you ever get a pleasurable nervious feeling when start dating some one? Perhaps the first couple dates you just kiss and touch each other over the clothes, but hours before that date you know your going to make love....that feeling. Understand?

I do it along. I have tried to suggest it to several women in various ways and each time they kind of freak out, so I quickly drop it.

When I had a stressfull day and want to baby myself, I get that pleasuable nervious feeling. I like to keep myself shaved pretty clean down there so I do look like a little boy.

Once I lie back and slip a diaper on, I use to listen to how to pee in a diaper file. It took along time to pee lieing down. I changed my approach and started visualizing my bladder empting. feeling the urine slowly travel down my penis and eventual start to dribble out, totally relaxed. Now I have now problem.

[James_WV]

Hey, I was just curious...

Can you guys put into words what it is about Diapers and/or incontinence that appeals to you? I know it's hard to describe why you like something, but could you try? I'm really fascinated.

I also just wanna say that it's cool that you can be open with your sexual tastes, and don't think that I am or am going to judge you in any way on this one. I may just try it myself one day...

-Linja

Well since finding this site the incontinence files are the second most appealing to me (after the feminization files). The idea of being forced to experience having uncontrollable bladder and/or bowels fits my submissive fetish almost as much as the idea of being forced to live/act/see myself as female.

HOWEVER....today I had a prostate biopsy (after 2 above 4.0 PSA tests). The chances of finding cancer are about 20% from what I've read, BUT if it is there as a 48-year-old male I'd be looking at an almost certain removal of my prostate. That would typically result in:

6 weeks with a urinary catheter in place...
a few more weeks of trying to regain continence and erection capability...
and an uncertain future as to whether I'd be fully continent again.

Suddenly it's serious business.........I'd rather have to wear panties all the time than diapers.....

[Dannyboy01]

Sorry to hear about your surgery. You must let me know how the catheter thing goes. I love to catheterize myself about 5 tomes a year. Like the baby thing, cant explain it. But the feeling of slipping it in is so nice. When I get more time I must tellyou of my femininzation. That I find almost any women will help with. I just had an experence last week, wll dressed up with a butt plug in. My gf new I was dressing up for her, but had no clue about the plug tell she reached around.... I like her to use a strap on, but this time I was already "Full" we just made great love the rest of the nite

[Linja]

Dannyboy, now that you've put it that way, with the description of the dating somebody, I understand much better. That excited and anticipating feeling, maybe I should try the diapers some day. I'm sorry to hear about how the majority of women act towards your fetish, it's a real shame.

James, I'm sorry to hear about your prostate, I hope that everything returns to normal if you do get your prostate removed.

As for the thought of slipping a catheter in, I'm not sure if that appeals to me. I'd feel a bit uncomfortable with it, and the thought kinda makes me shudder. Wouldn't it feel terrible putting a tube up your urethra? It always feels so sensitive there, doesn't it hurt?

Incubator, I'm terribly sorry to hear about your prostate, what caused the infection, if anything?

-Linja

[Linja]

My little brother had a bladder infection, but it was treated early luckily.

Pretty unlucky about the erection stuff, maybe you should go in with a few pictures printed from BBW porn sites. That'd stop me from getting aroused anyway, although many people are into people like that.

-Linja

[Dannyboy01]

Now that the thought of being catheterized is in your mind, we just have to get you over the thought that there is pain. Like you, I use to shudder at the thought, thats what drove me to it. I read alot before I did it to myself and not only was it NOT PAINFULL, when the tip passes the prostate the feeling is incrediable. Sitting/ walking around in a diaper wtih a catheter in is very different and pleasent. I must admit that after I remove it, it takes about 12 hours for the sensation to go away.

[Linja]

Are the CH numbers used to document size then?
I imagine I'd get used to it, but I still doubt it's something that I'd want to try voluntarily.

-Linja

[Dannyboy01]

Assume there is no displeasure assocated with the insertion or removal of a small catheter...Next time you're diapered and lieing in bed, visualize your urertha open, very relaxed and a slow steady dribble of urine into the diaper. Wearing rubber pants over the diaper will keep the heat in and assure no diaper leakage. Eventually you'll detect a hint of very warm moister on your butt cheeks. No stopping it as your lie there in bliss, your state of mind pleasently where you want it and your wet diaper desire coming true. There is a very strange yet plearualble sensation running the length of your penis. Go a head try visuilizing it....

[James_WV]

I won't have to imagine anymore.

I DO have prostate cancer
I WILL be having my prostate removed.
I WILL have a catheter for probably 3 weeks.
It USUALLY takes an average of 2 months after surgery to get full continence back (full defined as no pads needed).

I'm doing Kegels already to try to build up my muscles. The cancer is in one nerve bundle so it will have to go and since my prostate is very large and the cancer is on both sides the other nerve bundle will possibly have to go also.

So I probably will have some diminished continence and very probably some diminished potency in my future for some period of time.......very real.....not a fantasy......not a suggestion.......reality

[sandy82]

James, I am very sorry to hear about your condition.

The important thing is that they found it. In the 60s or 70s, they might not have done so.

I hope it all goes well and that your recovery is fast and solid.

Then we can go back to swapping tales about West Virginia and Maryland. :wink: I read something about Lewisburg recently, and it didn't concern Martha Stewart. (Thank heaven for small favors.) Rumor has it that she was telling people she was staying "very near" White Sulphur Springs. :)

[James_WV]

Sandy - thanks for the humor :)

I can say I'm very lucky - I'm 48 with no family history and no symptoms. If I hadn't happened to request a PSA test as part of a physical on a whim I would not have normally been tested until age 50. So I'm 2 years ahead of the game.

Catheter....uncontrollable wetting day and/or night...adult diapers and/or pads...Kegel exercises...not a great outlook but it beats the alternative...

[wetmick]

I find the comfortable feeling, the sounds and the restrictiveness of diapers appealing, i like getting an erection when im in the "down" position and i realy like letting huge squirts of pee into the diaper and feeling the hairs tingle on the back of my neck as the hot liquid pools up then gets drawn into the diaper at speed, i like holding out untill the very last second before just completely letting go, i like the feeling of messing :oops: myself because its quite a sensual experience, the speed, the bulk, the texture etc... then to finish it off i masturbate into a full diaper by rubbing the front of the diaper whilst my dick is in the "down" position (similar to how a woman masturbates), which always end up being a ridiculously mind blowingly strong, hard orgasm ending up with my hips flexing 3 feet off the bed... all in all its all just a plesant, sensual pleasing experience :D

Apart from the clean up operation... :?
Hence why I don't do it nearly as much as I should do :roll: