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Paranoid wrote:
I can't really experiment to the degree I want because I'm living with my family
Since my interests in feminization often revolve around female clothing (especially fancy formalwear), I'd lust after files that make it seem more necessary or pleasurable to acquire and wear.
Endo wrote:
I might like to make a few changes myself, but I'm pinned down by family and financial stuff.
Alien wrote:
A file can overcome inhibitions, and some of the files here have really helped me in that regard. But once it's no longer just about self-acceptance and the changes are going to cost you your family, your job, or your friends, that does no good.
This may sound heretical on a site devoted to mind warping, but what about a file that moves one in the opposite direction, that makes one enjoy a more practical approach?
Alien wrote:
someone starts listening to a file, realizes that the changes will cost them their marriage or their job, and backs out. But then you're back to an unsatisfied state in which the conflict between desire and real life continues to exist.
kslava wrote:
I still listen to become more mentally female, and I do plan to get surgery one day if I can afford it, and possibly make other small physical changes. So for me, it's both physical and mental.
oxdude wrote:Considering the "normal" -- a chancy word at best; used on a site like WMM, it definitely requires quotes -- person involved in mindwarping on WMM, a file to make one more practical would be the ultimate mind warp for most, if not all, of us.Alien wrote:A file can overcome inhibitions, and some of the files here have really helped me in that regard. But once it's no longer just about self-acceptance and the changes are going to cost you your family, your job, or your friends, that does no good. This may sound heretical on a site devoted to mind warping, but what about a file that moves one in the opposite direction, that makes one enjoy a more practical approach?Been there done that ... came back later and found out all I had lost was time and being content from when I rejected it to when I embraced it. However, since I wasn't ready then, would I have been eager to embrace the changes? Maybe I had to go through what I did to appreciate the changes ... all the changes.Alien wrote:someone starts listening to a file, realizes that the changes will cost them their marriage or their job, and backs out. But then you're back to an unsatisfied state in which the conflict between desire and real life continues to exist.
oxdude wrote:Alien, what you have done is work out an extremely practical, workable compromise between your fetish and your needs.
Me? I think I need to go further. I think that I need to talk with someone who understands my needs, wants, and desires, who can point me in the directions I need to go. That may be the psychiatrist that I heard is involved in the process. This may -- or may not -- involve gender reassignment surgery. It probably will, but that's not quite definite ... yet.
What I need right now is self-confidence. I love the women's clothes I have and wear them in my apartment but ... not outside (yet). The ones I wear can be mistaken as men's clothing at first glance; that is why androgynous is included in my description of sexual orientation/gender identity.
My current need is a file that gives me the willingness to wear the clothing I love -- and look wonderful in -- outside my apartment and the self-confidence to be able to ignore any snide comments I hear. I want a file that will boost my self-confidence enough that I will willingly ignore others' criticisms (and praise, for that matter). Others' opinions shouldn't matter in this. Surprisingly, they do ... at least right now. I want their opinions not to matter in this context. I'm not doing it to cross-dress. I'm doing this because these very feminine clothes feel much more comfortable than the male clothing I'm so accustomed to.
kslava wrote:I wasn't sure how to answer this.
I was assigned male at birth. I realized I wanted to be a girl at age 7, came out at age 19, transitioned age 24. Starting using hypnosis around that time, which I think helped me to come out of my shell more and really finally do the transformation.
However, I still listen to become more mentally female, and I do plan to get surgery one day if I can afford it, and possibly make other small physical changes. So for me, it's both physical and mental.
Alien wrote
I've found that EMG's Freedom from Mental Bondage helps with this stuff, it's aimed more at the messages we learned when we were growing up (you're a boy, you can't dress as a girl, etc.) but that's important and there are some suggestions that help you in the here and now.
• Name: SFHypno - Shrink Vocal Cords Price: $10 Buy Now
You deserve to have the beautiful, feminine voice that you've always wanted, and now this file will give it to you by shrinking and tightening your vocal cords more and more every day. As you listen to this file, your voice will become higher and higher until you sound as feminine as possible. The change will be both mental and physical, so it will be very hard to undo - make sure you want your voice to be much higher than it is now before you start listening to this file.
Author: sfhypno ? Added On: 2013-05-26 Downloaded: 22 Length: 19:11
Audience: Straight Men, Gay Men, TG M?F Effect: Permanent Voice Gender: Male Voice Type: Human
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