over the years, I've listened to many files which talk of sissy or feminine names, but whatever name I pick for myself I change my mind or don't stick to it. An idea; In the spirit of submission, I think it might be best to let the community pick out a name for me to use when trancing and responding. Just list them and I'll pick the one I like, or posters could come to a consensus. I can also add a poll later once I have 4 options. For a start, my (male) name is dan, but I want to avoid femme versions of it. I actually have trans friends and I don't feel comfortable doing what they do, (I joked about it, they didn't like it).
If people know how to change your username without making a new account, I'll work it in in a new front name. Plaat is not working and it was a mistake to use it. Thanks for the help!