diode wrote
OxyFemboi if you were to do it that way how would you go about it? Just curious.
This is way off topic but ...
If I were to do a ritual or tell someone how to do a ritual for anything, I would do the following:
1) Find out what the ritual was for.
2) Do research. Examples include which gods and/or goddesses cover this area, what their likes/dislikes are -- you don't offer alcohol to a teetotaler -- and what they would like as an offering (if anything).
3) Gather any tools and/or ritual items such as candles I don't already have. Most pagans already have a basic kit. Most advanced pagans can do with minimal -- or no -- props. "Minimal kit" is a plastic set of silverware from McDonalds, a packet of salt, a cup of water (some rainwater in your hand works), a twig, and a lit cigarette. "No kit" is your imagination and a few hand gestures (optional). I'm the "no kit" type.
The ritual is simple, since it follows a specific order exactly like an agenda. That order is:
Bathe. Dress in good clothing appropriate to the request and gods/goddesses.
Establish the Sacred Space. (Various rituals can be found on the web.)
Cleanse the area.
Invoke (invite) the gods/goddesses you decided upon to attend.
Welcome the gods/goddesses you asked to attend you.
Ask for whatever it is you want. (NO BEGGING, PLEADING, OR DEMANDING. This pisses off most people. Gods are no different. A request that nobody else be harmed in the fulfillment of your desire is appropriate. Horrid example: You need a lot of money; you get it but your parents die in a horrible car wreck: the money is from their new big life insurance policy.)
Celebrate life and how your life will be better when what you asked has been granted.
Thank them for coming and invite them to leave when they wish. (You invited them to a party, essentially; it's up to them to decide when to leave.)
Close the circle.
Clean up the area as yo would after any party.
Don't pester them. They heard and will reply. Some things take time.
Details -- gods/goddesses, incense, and such vary according to your requests, time of month -- waxing moon, full moon, waning moon, or new moon -- if it's a Major Holiday (Solstices, Equinoxes, Cross-Quarters), and the gods/goddesses asked.)
Most pagans have one basic ritual that they use. Details vary according to training and inclination but the basics are the same.