Making it real?

[Malaprop]

So, I listened to "Samatha Sez Sissy" by bandler yesterday and I'm seriously craving to actually suck on a cock. I've never done anything like that -- although I've enjoyed hypnotic fantasy, in real life, men have never turned me on. This morning at the gym I kept noticing guys and wondering what their cocks might look like and what it might be like to suck on them. I'm not sure what to do at this point.

[Mutazoa]

So, I listened to "Samatha Sez Sissy" by bandler yesterday and I'm seriously craving to actually suck on a cock. I've never done anything like that -- although I've enjoyed hypnotic fantasy, in real life, men have never turned me on. This morning at the gym I kept noticing guys and wondering what their cocks might look like and what it might be like to suck on them. I'm not sure what to do at this point.

Well the obvious answer is "go for it".

[bandler]

So, I listened to "Samatha Sez Sissy" by bandler yesterday and I'm seriously craving to actually suck on a cock. I've never done anything like that -- although I've enjoyed hypnotic fantasy, in real life, men have never turned me on. This morning at the gym I kept noticing guys and wondering what their cocks might look like and what it might be like to suck on them. I'm not sure what to do at this point.

Think about what you might do to satisfy your cravings, and think of the consequences and potential consequences. There are many people advertising on Craigslist.org in the Men seeking Men section... you could answer an ad or write your own. You could meet a man for casual sex. Do you know the risks and how to protect yourself?

You could also keep the fantasy in your mind. They say Wanting Is Better Than Having. After all, desires and fantasies are limitless, while reality is flawed and imperfect.

In the end, you are responsible for yourself.

[Pansyboi]

The safe thing to do would be to buy a dildo and try it on that. Maybe that will satisfy the urge and it will be all you need.

[dangel1983]

I think loads of us have been there, me included.

I started off not remotely interested in cocks - but after all the time I spent thinking about feminization and hypnosis etc etc, I began to crave cock. In the end during one marathon wank session, I couldn't take it any longer and looked on the internet for someone nearby.

In the end I found a not so convincing CD, explained my problem and met with her that night. In my mind doing it with someone dressed as a woman wasn't so 'gay'.

I was really nervous but I'll always remember sliding her silk panties down and taking her thick meat in my mouth, it was amazing.

It's up to you, this path can lead on to other things (months later we swapped roles as 'she' became a he and took my anal virginity as I dressed in lingerie as a 'woman' - amazing.) But I still love chicks too and don't spend time worrying and obsessing over either now.

[Malaprop]

Thanks for the replies. Most of the effects of the hypnosis subsided after a couple of days - I'm back to noticing women as always, and not thinking about men's cocks. Unfortunately, while such fantasies as doing it with a CD, or dressing up and being somebody's bitch are highly intriguing, too many things in my life would be at risk were I to pursue it.

[bandler]

Thanks for the replies. Most of the effects of the hypnosis subsided after a couple of days - I'm back to noticing women as always, and not thinking about men's cocks. Unfortunately, while such fantasies as doing it with a CD, or dressing up and being somebody's bitch are highly intriguing, too many things in my life would be at risk were I to pursue it.

Fantasies are sometimes just that - Fantasies. According to many surveys, the most popular woman's fantasy is a 'rape' fantasy. But how many women claim to have enjoyed experiencing rape in real life? If you can arrange to get away for just long enough to listen to a favorite recording, maybe even on an airplane, you can have your life just the way you like it and the fantasies too. Who knows? you might not like the smell and taste of reality, and the cleanup might take a lot longer. But in your mind you can smell sexy perfumes, taste cream and honey, while your body experiences pleasure with no risk.

[Mutazoa]

Fantasies are sometimes just that - Fantasies. According to many surveys, the most popular woman's fantasy is a 'rape' fantasy. But how many women claim to have enjoyed experiencing rape in real life? If you can arrange to get away for just long enough to listen to a favorite recording, maybe even on an airplane, you can have your life just the way you like it and the fantasies too. Who knows? you might not like the smell and taste of reality, and the cleanup might take a lot longer. But in your mind you can smell sexy perfumes, taste cream and honey, while your body experiences pleasure with no risk.

It is often said that people will fantasize about things they would never do in real life. Just as some women fantasize about being raped but would never want it to happen in real life, just as some men may fantasize about being turned into a cock sucking sissy but would never want to do it for real.

The real danger with fantasy is that, unless it is used sparingly, it can really throw your system out of whack. Such as the case of people fapping to pron on the net all day, having a harder and harder time getting off on live women because they have conditioned themselves to become aroused by static images or watermelon breasted bleach blonds, instead of a real live woman.

The moral of the story...use your fantasies as the spice to your sex life, not the main dish. A1 sauce tastes great on a steak, but I don't want to be chugging it straight out of the bottle...

[bandler]

It is often said that people will fantasize about things they would never do in real life. Just as some women fantasize about being raped but would never want it to happen in real life, just as some men may fantasize about being turned into a cock sucking sissy but would never want to do it for real.

The real danger with fantasy is that, unless it is used sparingly, it can really throw your system out of whack. Such as the case of people fapping to porn on the net all day, having a harder and harder time getting off on live women because they have conditioned themselves to become aroused by static images or watermelon breasted bleach blonds, instead of a real live woman.

The moral of the story...use your fantasies as the spice to your sex life, not the main dish. A1 sauce tastes great on a steak, but I don't want to be chugging it straight out of the bottle...

Well said. And True.