Welcome to WarpMyMind, ambushsub.
It's excellent that you're open about what you want and need.
This response tells a little about trigger phrases... Some trivia about phrases like the one you like.
Sometimes, when a guy sees a trigger phrase spelled out...
it causes an effect.
As a result, it's important to be cautious when posting them in a public forum. You avoid spelling it out completely, because it should be a surprise. And you know it's an ambush only if it's a surprise.
You could type:
And the ones who need to understand will understand.
And if you can avoid spelling out this special phrase in a forum, then you can avoid spelling out other phrases too.
Because you love a good surprise, don't you?