Female Masterbation help

[MysteriousManInRed]

I am a man but want to try masterbateing like a woman. Does anyone know how to do that?

[uw_onsterfelijk]

Ummm... let's see!

Lie on your bed, legs spread apart, knees raised, feet flat, use your non dominant hand to "feel" yourself up( pinch your nips/run your hand all over your body/suck on your fingers etc etc), use your other hand to hold your "dildo", without stroking yourself... imagine you are ramming your pussy with your "dildo", again NO STROKING ;) Women don't do that! Try fantasizing about what your desires as a woman masturbating are. Try to climax without resorting to your typical male masturbation technique!

Easy huh! hehehhe Have fun

[darkenedav]

I am a man but want to try masterbateing like a woman. Does anyone know how to do that?

Google 'porn female masturbation' done :)

[MysteriousManInRed]

The reason I am asking this is because I have stopped masterbating normally and started masturbating in different ways like rubbing the tip of my dick with the pantys I'm wearing or some other soft material. And by using a vibrator (did you know that if a man turned into a woman the tip of his dick would be his clitoris.) so I was trying to find a way to Jack off even more like a woman. Some guy said that by rubbing the area between his tesicles and butt he was to masterbate like a girl

[macdaddy]

Hi I have been slowly feminizing over the last year - here is one of my techniques, not sure but think I picked it up at a web site called 'Strapped in Silk". (A few good feminizing hypno files there too.)

I like to hold my hand open and flat (like I am going pat a pet or person on the head), and using my open palm rub the tip of my little male clitty in a circular motion, (preferably through a pair of soft silky panties.) It's kinda like polishing a lamp... Do 12 counter clock wise rubs, then 12 clockwise, then 11 counter, then 11 clockwise...etc etc going down to 1 then back up again until you quiver in release.

I use my other hand to pinch and roll my nips, or stroke my inner thighs.

Sometimes I do this while bouncing up and down on one of my dildos - I can orgasm that way without even rubbing the head of my man clit if I get the angle just right so it stims my prostrate.

Have fun!
:twisted:

[MysteriousManInRed]

I tried masterbating today, and I truer normal masterbation but there was no pleasure in it, so I Reyes rubbing it with a softer material but it was still not that good, so now I only get amazing orgasms when I rub my man clit with panties...

[LIF]

Ummm... let's see!

Lie on your bed, legs spread apart, knees raised, feet flat, use your non dominant hand to "feel" yourself up( pinch your nips/run your hand all over your body/suck on your fingers etc etc), use your other hand to hold your "dildo", without stroking yourself... imagine you are ramming your pussy with your "dildo", again NO STROKING ;) Women don't do that! Try fantasizing about what your desires as a woman masturbating are. Try to climax without resorting to your typical male masturbation technique!

Easy huh! hehehhe Have fun

I came SOOO close but i couldnt climax, any advice?

[uw_onsterfelijk]

I came SOOO close but i couldnt climax, any advice?

Patience, maybe ;) Find a file that really really turns you on in "that" way.
You know, all feminine fantasy feeling. Then try again right afterwords. Let your imagination run wild and try to visualize yourself as the fantasies you have.

YOU have to really really want it. Good Luck :)

[tiffanycd89]

Ummm... let's see!

Lie on your bed, legs spread apart, knees raised, feet flat, use your non dominant hand to "feel" yourself up( pinch your nips/run your hand all over your body/suck on your fingers etc etc), use your other hand to hold your "dildo", without stroking yourself... imagine you are ramming your pussy with your "dildo", again NO STROKING ;) Women don't do that! Try fantasizing about what your desires as a woman masturbating are. Try to climax without resorting to your typical male masturbation technique!

Easy huh! hehehhe Have fun

When you say "dildo," can you describe how to hold it? Also, are you referring to our penis? Or an actual physical object?

[uw_onsterfelijk]

OK, first off, just as with hypnosis, anyone practicing masturbating like this will "change" themselves. You've been *warned*.

A little information proper:

Now, the biggest and best sex organ humans have is... THE brain!

I know, I know, who knew?! I mean, myself having been blessed with a ten inch prick I now find out it's my brain! Kidding... laugh ;)

Anyways, fortunately, your brain can be rewired given the "right" conditions. Hypnosis obviously aids in this rewiring as I'm sure "everyone" here is aware of. But another aid is habitual actions and associative thinking at just the right moment. The "right" moment being orgasm, and that will become an anchor towards achieving the desired effects.

A common example would be: say I was bent over, I went to go upright and caught my head on cabinet corner... OUCH. Unless I'm a little dense, I won't be doing that again all too soon. Simple association, stand up:be careful:don't bump your head.

The goods:

Now when it come to sexual pleasure, the "typical" guy has his cock involved and... with some type of "stroking"/ "sliding in and out" motion. So the trick is to disassociate that action/necessity for sexual pleasure to be achieved. OR, more specifically, associate everything else but that. And eliminating that action, for the most part, during the process.

In my first post I said >> ...imagine you are ramming your pussy with your "dildo". YES, I was referring to your actual penis. But you have to think about it differently. Take it out of the equation. Imagine that if you do stroke yourself your cock is unfeeling or goes numb and has no pleasure involved. BUT you can "thrust" your "dildo" gently in and out of your "pussy". Just hold it by the shaft and push it in and out and use your imagination, or hypnosis on this site, to bring the "penetration" part/fantasy to life. It's really pretty easy, basically you are just putting pressure on your pelvic region.

AND avoid ANY touching of that really sensitive spot just under the head!!!

You have to FOCUS on ALL the other things that turn you on AS you approach orgasm. WITHOUT actually stroking your cock. How you're dressed, what it makes you feel like, can you feel the shoes/nylons you're wearing, makeup, are you being "slutty"/naughty, does it feel as if it's against your will, forced, is there a real dildo in your mouth you're sucking on etc etc.

Now, I'm serious, right as orgasm is approaching, and during/after it mind you, you have to go over *everything* that is turning you on... EXCEPT... your cock. Try it for a week ;)

NOW, if you can't orgasm without actually stroking yourself, you just have to ween yourself over time. It will happen.

I'm not really good at long post's sooo... I hope this cleared up what I tried to convey initially.

It's all mind control to me, I love that aspect and that's what does "it" for me.

Good luck all.

[tiffanycd89]

I thought that's what you meant...

Perhaps the biggest thing for me would be to find a way to overcome the necessity of having an erection to orgasm (and possibly the ability to orgasm without ejaculating...or orgasming (wow, that actually didn't trip a spell check) with ejaculating without an erection).

I am aware that it will take sometime, I mean, we are essentially rewiring our bodies to do something they weren't originally programmed for. We were programmed not long after conception to have erections, among other "male" things. If we want to become a woman, we must do away with our male habits.

I've actually heard of the possibility of women achieving orgasm from simply thinking about it.I would actually love to be able to do that, and am sure that I could...but if I can't, at least being able to just rub my nipples to cum would be great.

I actually feel that if I achieve this, it'd actually give me a deeper connection with the genetic females, and greatly aid in any sexual actions with them.

[susiej]

You're not a male; you're not a boy; you're not a man. You're a woman. Once you come to this simple realization, pleasuring yourself is a fantastic, sensual, feminine experience.

There are no difficult choices about how to do this; your pussy is there for your pleasure, and the pleasure of your lovers. You don't even think about "doing it like a boy", because that would be impossible.

Your clit is extremely sensitive; be real gentle with it at first. Just lie back in bed, touch your clit with one finger, and rub it in a circle no bigger than a quarter. Visualize what you look like, there on the bed, your soft, curvy body, long flowing hair, generous breasts, fingers busy. Visualize what your lover would see, as she looks down on you. What a gorgeous picture you're treating her with.

Tell yourself you're a pretty girl, and you love your clit and your vagina. Say it out loud, in a your pretty female voice. Realize that it's all true. You're female, and you're masturbating the way females do. Isn't it heavenly? Isn't it just truly heavenly?

Don't be in a hurry. Guys are in a hurry, wham bam, run off to the football game, but we girls like to take our time and love every second of it. Use your other hand on your nipples. Your nipples are almost as sensitive as your clit, and over time, you might even learn how to give yourself an orgasm just by fondling your nips. Draw little circles around your areolas; massage the weight of your breasts. Frig the tips of your nipples. Enjoy your femininity.

Your pussy is getting hot, and that gentle rubbing you're doing is beginning to get you really excited. You want to cum, you're eager for it, but you know we girls take a while to get there, but when we do, it's fantastic! Use the fingers of both hands, but limit your attention to your clit, because that's where your action is. It never occurs to you to stroke, or to wrap your hand around something, because you've got nothing like that.

When you cum, it's going to explode through your entire body, not just the small space of your pussy. You probably won't ejaculate. Girls don't often ejaculate, despite what the porno sites say. You don't need to ejaculate. Your orgasm isn't about projecting something out of yourself; it's about welcoming something into yourself. When you cum as a female, your entire body will spasm and tremble, uncontrollably. You'll probably scream in ecstasy. You'll feel an intense desire to thrust your knees together, closing yourself. This can easily last for ten seconds or more, so be ready for a thrill!

Tell yourself you're a good girl, and that you're doing this very well, because you are! Say it out loud.

Now imagine your lover, who's been watching you play with yourself, can't help herself any more, and climbs onto the bed with you. She kneels between your widespread legs, looking down at your sumptuous body. She's wearing a huge blue strap-on, and your eyes lock on to it. Oh, my gawd, you are so ready!

She mounts you. Her breasts hang down and rub against yours. You feel the pressure as the dildo presses against your labia, then you relax your pelvic floor muscles, and she's in...


You can experience all this as a female. It's easy enough, with practice, practice, practice! The key, as a previous poster said, is to utilize your largest sex organ, your brain.

[darkenedav]

hot tamale!

[sevan]

I just have to reply. I have recently really been working on feminization. Just the other day I masterbated as a woman for the first time...best orgasm ever.! In addition to thinking in terms of a woman, I did not touch my large clit, rather, I used a couple of fingers to massage the area of my clitoral hood just as any other girl might do. Slowly massaging in circles a warmth started to glow and build in my groin, then my belly, then all over. I did ejaculate but it was not the center point or focus. All this without touching my clitoris. MMmmm! Never going back!

[lusci0us_steph]

[quote="uw_onsterfelijk"]OK, first off, just as with hypnosis, anyone practicing masturbating like this will "change" themselves. You've been *warned*.]

how does this change a person? How and why would it change me if I tried?

[kyliegirly]

I want to know too, how does it "change" you?

[uw_onsterfelijk]

Deviating drastically from the "normal" things that cause arousal and orgasm in a habitual manner will effect change in your sexual desires to where that is what you will need to achieve arousal and orgasm!

For instance, say you were heterosexual and you were "between" girlfriends and... just for kicks you masturbated this way for, oh... let's say 6 month's...
THEN you meet a girl you like and after a few weeks you are having sex with her... YOU might have some "problems", depending on your perspective of the situation I guess, climaxing the "normal" way.

Often, guys who go a long time(years) without a girlfriend and frequently masturbate, find it difficult achieving orgasm through penetrative sex! They get "wired" for the use of their hand!

I hope that helps?

[kyliegirly]

Makes sense, still wanna try it though lol.

[darkenedav]

Often, guys who go a long time(years) without a girlfriend and frequently masturbate, find it difficult achieving orgasm through penetrative sex! They get "wired" for the use of their hand!

After 5 years of being alone and using hypnosis to enhance orgasms I have to say it was stupidly hard to release through intercourse (weirder still was it was even harder when oral). However me and my girl stumbled across an interesting thing through this. If teased all day the first is always easiest and then its a challenge ;) BUT the jist is you persevere!

Great thing is my orgasms with her are not only physical now but also incredibly spiritual, I feel like my mind cums harder then I do sometimes >_<

Plus side I guess is we're in love and she's my cute lil sub :D {ahem end of mush}