1love wrote:So ive kinda just figured out over the last few months, i have gender dysphoria. Have had it my enter life. Im 23 and have only just acknowledged that im not comfortable being completely male, and i dont feel like me in my body.
I have sharp features, broad shoulders, and hair in too many places. You look at me and you can tell im a guy. There's nothing feminine about my looks, only really my mannerisms.
From looking around at HRT, is not a one size fits all kinda thing. I'm wanting to look like a woman. Hips, waist, shoulders, face. hips and waist is definitely more important to me that breasts. However, i know that after puberty, things get complicated.
There is some debate on whether hypnosis works. Is there anyone on this web site that has managed to get any results? Is there any files on this site that you would recommend.
To make things clear, i do not want a mistress, or a dom, and im not a cum guzzling slut, or sissy, like most of these feminization files. Im straight(I like women), i just dont fit in my body.
It's good to know your limitations. Body formation continues to around age 25 -- the earlier that one stops development along the unwanted path the better results. Hormone therapy can only do so much by your age.
Gender identifiers number into the hundreds. At a glance far shorter than conscious can believe we take in first impressions. At a distance of 100 yards, or a block or two away, we begin cataloging and pigeonholing somebody: height, silhouette, gait, swagger or sway, hair style, proportions, dominant coloration, clothing type and style, prominence of features... and closer we are examining lips, eyebrows, foreheads, skull shape, ears, throat, shoulders, hands, feet...
Success "passing" requires understanding these distinctions, and minimizing certain give-aways, while emphasizing certain key features as distractions. Get about 20 or so gender markers accepted and the rest is easy.
Movement is important. Bellydance is the keystone feminine seduction. Women in the desert, who can be divorced by their husband saying three times "I divorce you" can find themselves stranded without food and shelter on a sand dune. Without TV or other entertainments, bellydance evolved so that these women could sell themselves as valuable breeders, valuable entertainment. Spend a lot of time learning and doing this forerunner of burlesque and striptease dances. Learn everything Goddess Dolphine has to say.
Pay attention to exercise video trainers: the ones who are angular and muscular are not your roll models -- avoid them. Those whom are rounded and curvy, do their exercises. Do the Pussycat Dolls exercise DVDs.
YouTube.com is a rich source of feminization video tips, including makeup tutorials, and sewing lessons.
Start making your own clothing now. Cloth has no gender. It's not "women's clothing" or "men's clothing", it's MY CLOTHING. I made it out of raw fabric yardage and nobody can guilt me on what I wear, so long as I am not provoking.
Avoid conflict and high stress: nothing makes a person more unattractive than adrenaline holding the feature taut without visible softness. "Don't Worry, Be Happy!"
Androgyny may be the solution if you can't "pass". You choose the middle, some of both sides. Nobody else asked your permission in selecting their style, and you don't need their permission either.
Gender is NEVER chosen by any person -- it is chosen for us by forces more powerful than we are. You just have to learn how to get along being who you are, and others may or may not like you as you, but there's lots of other people, billions and billions of them, and some will let you be comfortable being whoever you are.
The correct terminology for a female whom is sexually attracted to females is "lesbian", not "straight". If you see yourself as female and are attracted to females, SURPRISE, you have discovered another whammy, maam. You are not heterosexual unless you want to be a shemale feminized male with boy-parts.