BillionSix wrote:What would you like your Ultimate Master to be like?
This may sound silly, but my ultimate Master needs to know himself and like himself. i don't know if you have ever watched the shows with vampires who are full of guilt and self loathing. i just want to say, grow up and accept yourself! Masters who hate their darkside will keep trying to leave me alone or they will try to treat me differently they won't be someone i can trust to be there for me for the rest of my life.
BillionSix wrote:How should he think and behave?
i need to feel their power. my ultimate Master would be self confident, self assured, he needs to know that he can take me whenever he wants me. i need him to let me know i excite and arouse him. Not crudely, unless he is humiliating me, but the strong silent type who never lets me feel what he is feeling leaves me with nothing to work with. i respond to power and i am aroused by excitement. A Master who hides all of that makes everything much more difficult.
BillionSix wrote:How should he treat you? In what way should he regard you?
If i am fortunate my Master will consider me valuable and precious but never let that get in the way of his pleasure. my ultimate Master can make me afraid but i hope that ultimately he won't want to break his toy. i don't need to know that, probably i shouldn't know that, but i don't have a death wish even though my Master has the power to destroy me.
BillionSix wrote:What behavior on your Master's part would make you respond the best?
i trust selfishness. As long as he follows his desires and i know that he does desire i will feel owned, safe and secure. If he starts trying to please me or to watch out for me or to protect me and save me from myself i am in trouble.
BillionSix wrote:Unless the idea of telling your Master how he should act goes against your submissiveness.
i'm not telling my Master how he should act. Like EMG and emgslave, it is important that my Master know me, understand me, and then use me. Think of the Master as the artist, think of me as the canvas or the marble or even the paint. An artist has to know his medium but he doesn't let his medium decide what the masterpiece will be.
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