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rigsby wrote:IMO, life is tough enough when you're smart, so why make it tougher by going the dumb route? :?
greatsmilesd wrote:slyfox,
Glad that your getting what you want... for me i don't get the 'dumbing' down thing. My goals are to be a really fit, smart, sexy 'dude'. I want to have my intellect and be able to use it to focus on my goals and articulate to others as clearly as possible.
but if that's what 'floats-your-boat'... go for it.
danny1988 wrote:rigsby wrote:IMO, life is tough enough when you're smart, so why make it tougher by going the dumb route? :?
True words to live by :)
I so want a file to bring out the surfer in me more and more lately.
Most of the jock files put me off with the dumbing down aspect. But one specifically tailored to make my surfer side totally me would be awesome right now xD
danny1988 wrote:rigsby wrote:IMO, life is tough enough when you're smart, so why make it tougher by going the dumb route? :?
True words to live by :)
I so want a file to bring out the surfer in me more and more lately.
Most of the jock files put me off with the dumbing down aspect. But one specifically tailored to make my surfer side totally me would be awesome right now xD
rigsby wrote:danny1988 wrote:rigsby wrote:IMO, life is tough enough when you're smart, so why make it tougher by going the dumb route? :?
True words to live by :)
I so want a file to bring out the surfer in me more and more lately.
Most of the jock files put me off with the dumbing down aspect. But one specifically tailored to make my surfer side totally me would be awesome right now xD
Did you mean a file that motivates you to do more actual surfing, or one that just gives you more of a surfer look and attitude?
rubbapig wrote:slyfox..
Gud for u dude.. glad to here ya havin success and injoying it.
And yea bro.. fink da same.. is just a well fukkin awesum feelin.. only finking bout working out, sport, sex and stuff and not kareing bout much else.
Ya well lucky to have a tist to work on making ya a propa dum bro dude.. bin using sum of the jock fials on here witch took ages to work and tho was not keen on the dummin down part of them wen started am luving how much simpler life now feels - less stressed and much happier now.
Wuld like to take it further now.. and like rugbyjock.. like da thort of it bein perminunt :-)
rubbapig wrote:Danny..
I don't know. Guess u are lucky bro.. and seems most people that have spokun to bout this agree with u
rugbyjockca wrote:I understand guys not wanting to dumb themselves down, but I gotta say that when you come into a thread and start explaining that you don't want to dumb yourself down, it's kind of a buzz kill for those of us that DO.
There are things people are into that I'm not, but I don't go into those threads and talk about how I don't like other peoples' kinks.
I don't mean to be disrespectful: we all have the right to like and not like whatever we want, just that I ENJOY thinking about being dumbed down, and don't really need to read another post about why some dudes don't.
If you can't say something nice about someone else's kink, maybe try not to say anything at all?
I just feel that dumbing yourself down to the point your totally reliant on another is not a good idea
rubbapig wrote:slyfox..
Gud for u dude.. glad to here ya havin success and injoying it.
And yea bro.. fink da same.. is just a well fukkin awesum feelin.. only finking bout working out, sport, sex and stuff and not kareing bout much else.
Ya well lucky to have a tist to work on making ya a propa dum bro dude.. bin using sum of the jock fials on here witch took ages to work and tho was not keen on the dummin down part of them wen started am luving how much simpler life now feels - less stressed and much happier now.
Wuld like to take it further now.. and like rugbyjock.. like da thort of it bein perminunt :-)
danny1988 wrote:rubbapig wrote:Danny..
I don't know. Guess u are lucky bro.. and seems most people that have spokun to bout this agree with u
I can understand your want for less stress, I used to be stressed all the time.
I just feel that dumbing yourself down to the point your totally reliant on another is not a good idea. Maybe im wrong in this thinking I dont know.
I just think having the ability to totally switch off and chill at times is far better. Like as soon as work finishes im like just totally not thinking about work and just focusing on simple things like whats for tea or what shall I do for some fun and just let go.
On another note anyone know a tist who does comissions? I really am thinking about comissioning a surfer personality file ^^
[/quote]rugbyjockca wrote:I don't know why you're being so defensive. You're free to ask questions, but just every single thread where guys even hint at wanting to get dumb, someone always comes in and lets everyone know that they DON'T want to get dumb. And then explains why it's stupid to want to get dumb.
I'm sorry you were offended by what I had to say, but I get offended when I see guys say things like:
I just feel that dumbing yourself down to the point your totally reliant on another is not a good idea
It probably isn't a good idea, but this website is called "Warp my mind" not "let's use hypnosis to make us into better people".
rubbapig wrote:danny1988 wrote:rubbapig wrote:Danny..
I don't know. Guess u are lucky bro.. and seems most people that have spokun to bout this agree with u
I can understand your want for less stress, I used to be stressed all the time.
I just feel that dumbing yourself down to the point your totally reliant on another is not a good idea. Maybe im wrong in this thinking I dont know.
I just think having the ability to totally switch off and chill at times is far better. Like as soon as work finishes im like just totally not thinking about work and just focusing on simple things like whats for tea or what shall I do for some fun and just let go.
On another note anyone know a tist who does comissions? I really am thinking about comissioning a surfer personality file ^^
I admit that I find the thort of being dummed down and totally reliant on the tist/trainer/master to fink for me is a very horny and appealing wun!
The level of trust that wuld invole for a start...that in itself wuld be sumfing special..
..but that's not wots happened. Nor do I have any less stress than say a year ago wen wos probably the lowest have ever felt. I don't feel stupid .. I don't feel as tho theres anyfing that kant do that culd before.
Wots changed is my perception .. and my focus as to wots importunt.
I kno less about the news and wots going on in the world cos am less interested now.. watching the tennis or cricket is more wot wanna do. I kan read, rite and do basic maths.. its just more of an effert now, takes longer and have to kep pausing as it kan make me brane hurt.
But that's not importunt.. as long as kan get by (witch I am) then it doesn't matter... I mean, fuck! im going to a gym and working on doing sumit bout the chest ive kept hidden all me life!
I still got all the same shit going on.. that's not changed, just not finkin bout it so much or feelin as bothered by it. And that's wot am liking.
And of course now have grown to like not using sum of the abilities that have/had.. make me wunda wot it wuld be like to lose that permenuntley. ;-)
rubbapig wrote:
Maybe dumbing down allows you to switch off, but being totally reliant on another person over the interent is a bad idea imo.
Its sort of like I have my smart side and a side that doesnt want to think and hates thinking and each have their place and time. Would not having something like tis be more beneficial so you could think when you need to and not think when you want?
rugbyjockca wrote:Yeah, nope, I'm not sorry now.
No one here needs you to protect us from our fetishes and fantasies, thanks. Help not requested, not wanted, not needed.
I'm not going to be careful not to offend you when it's crystal clear that you don't care about offending people who like different things than you do.
I don't care if you want to be a dumb jock, a smart jock, a blue or green jock, but let people here have their fantasies without judging them for it. You don't know anyone here or what we've lived through, and you don't have any authority to say what is healthy or not for anyone but yourself.
danny1988 wrote:Thanks for the explanation :)
You helped me understand. What you have sounds nice, funny I definatly have a part of my personality like that. When my friend is talking about his phd or some boring science crap when I jsut want to chill I have a voice in my head going this is boring and I totally tune out. Same at work I just switch off at times and not think.
@rugbyjockca This is what I needed to hear, an explanation is all.
rugbyjockca wrote:danny1988 wrote:Thanks for the explanation :)
You helped me understand. What you have sounds nice, funny I definatly have a part of my personality like that. When my friend is talking about his phd or some boring science crap when I jsut want to chill I have a voice in my head going this is boring and I totally tune out. Same at work I just switch off at times and not think.
@rugbyjockca This is what I needed to hear, an explanation is all.
OK, I'm being rough on you - I get prickly, and this is an issue that bugs the hell out of me - to be clear you are NOT the only person in this thread who rubbed me the wrong way, and I appreciate that you're actually engaging with me. I can be abrasive, but at heart I am a good guy. I don't think you ever intended to come off as judgemental, either.
Feel free to send me a private message if you want to talk about this further. I'll try to be less aggressive and angry-sounding.
rugbyjockca wrote:Sorry dude. I didn't mean to upset you so much. Seriously. I can be a sensitive person, too.
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To explain myself, I want this forum to be a place where dudes into the jock fetish can feel safe and supported. It's one of the few places on the internet where I can talk about my deepest and darkest fantasies, some of which are pretty horrible if you think about it for 2 seconds.
There IS a self-destructive streak in wanting to be dumbed down, and it flies in the face of all of the well-meaning loved ones who've been waiting my whole life for me to realize my potential. I'm a smart, kind (really!) guy, so why am I still floundering? Shouldn't I be a successful doctor by now? There's a lot of pressure from people I love for me to be different than who I want to be, and this fantasy is one of the ways I have to escape that pressure even for a few minutes.
Even innocent questions can sound like accusations or like the well-meaning questions from friends and family, and just add to the pressure that I'm trying to escape by coming here.
So, I AM sorry that I came off as aggressive as I did. As much as I love the idea of jock transformation, I don't want to ever be the jock bully. I hope you feel better soon.
slyfox wrote:rubbapig wrote:slyfox..
Gud for u dude.. glad to here ya havin success and injoying it.
And yea bro.. fink da same.. is just a well fukkin awesum feelin.. only finking bout working out, sport, sex and stuff and not kareing bout much else.
Ya well lucky to have a tist to work on making ya a propa dum bro dude.. bin using sum of the jock fials on here witch took ages to work and tho was not keen on the dummin down part of them wen started am luving how much simpler life now feels - less stressed and much happier now.
Wuld like to take it further now.. and like rugbyjock.. like da thort of it bein perminunt :-)
Thanks for the support, bro! :D
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