The assexual file thread

[radbaguy]

In this topic I'll share my success on the asexual file.

For me asexuality, nullo, eunuch, chastity were always exciting. As in CalsChastity, the thought of serving without receiving pleasure was hot to me. After trying CalsChastity with no success at all, I am trying the asexual one. (Its not that the file isnt good. Its me that cant get deep enough i guess)

The first thing that came in my mind after listening to Asexual is "what do i do now?" and since i'm still feeling horny, i'm not so sure if i want masturbate or do anything sexual related. I'm not as jnterested as I would be if i hadnt listened to the file. I'll listen much more to it to get away with all the sexual feelings I still have. I'll keep updating here if anyone wants to now.

[OxyFemboi]

Ther are several types of asexualiity. You can be attracted - aesthetically attracted -- to one gender or another (or both). "Aesthetic attraction" is basically when you see a work of art (breathing or not) and say , WQW! That's magnificent!" but the idea of fucking the work of art (even if it is Michaelangelo's David come to life) does not pass through your mind.

You can be hetero-, bi-, and gay- romantic, where you love the romance but not the actual act.

There are many ramifications of the Asexual world. I could probably write a book about the variations. Instead, I will refer you to Tumblr's Asexual Advice, AVEN,and a few other organizations you can find by googling "asexual".

[radbaguy]

Thanks for the info. I'll do check on that before I jump to any other conclusion.

[OxyFemboi]

Glad I could help. I have such a low sex drive that, when I found out about this classification, decided that I was a gayromantic asexual. (I love the romance but can do without the messy bits.)

There are all sorts of sexual classifications most people have never heard of.

[radbaguy]

I am attracted to men, but the thought of me being an asexual guy turns me on as well. I dont know how it can be classified but I accept it. I think in my case it all relates to chastity which relates to submission which I enjoy quite well.

[ace-alex]

Cool & concise description of asexuality there Oxy, nice one :D

[OxyFemboi]

ace-alex wrote
Cool & concise description of asexuality there Oxy, nice one :D

Thanks.

Oh yeah. The nickname for asexuals is "ace".

One of my favorite ace blogs is http://http://asexualadvice.tumblr.com/

They have a great FAQ sheet and lots of links to other blogs if you can't find answers to your questions there. They also answer questions, sort of a Dear Abby for aces. :D Enjoy!

[GrimWolf]

Honestly, I don't see why people want to be asexual. I'm a natural asexual/aromantic (aero-ace). My brain is in constant conflict over my sexuality. The worst thing is when your body denies the commands of your brain. Like I can get mentally offended if someone acts sexually towards me, but my stupid body will still get excited at the idea of it.

[ProfessorPig]

bi grey ace here, i am a little further out on the spectrum so there are many out there who would say i am not a true asexual but i am happy to share my experiences with it.

i do masturbate, i have done so for ages, but i have no desire for sex. for me masturbation takes on the role of something done for stress relief. for many years when i masturbated i did not think of anything. eventually i realized that was weird and i tried to get into porn to fit in. i ended up gravitating to fetish material because it was easier to assign the act of masturbation to abstract concepts than to people. i have had sex, and when i have had it i usually enjoy it well enough, but i pretty much never want to have sex. about once a year i will desire sex but thats it.

for me its kind of like being someone who never wants cake. i can eat cake if i have to, but it would never be something you would go out and seek, and even if its offered to me i really just don't want the cake. for some asexuals its even more severe. even just the thought of cake grosses them out, they don't want to see it, they don't want to be near it, and they definitely do not want to taste it. and you have to deal with average people who just think your crazy and say stuff like "cake is delicious! have you ever had cake? why don't you like cake?!? you must be eating the wrong cake."

your millage may vary, i get the impression that there is a lot of variation on the spectrum. and i know a lot of people who have very different experiences with it, but this is my experience with being a grey asexual.

[cbarber92]

Demisexual here, meaning I only experience sexual attraction to people I really know. Again, why anyone would want to be ace is kind of perplexing for me, because all throughout my high school and college years I was always concerned because I just never knew why I wasn't like everyone else when it came to sexuality and desires towards people. This was back before I even knew asexual was a thing.

I enjoy sex very much, but only with my girlfriend, I just don't experience sexual attraction to anyone else. I have my fetishes that I can get off too, and I experience aesthetic attraction to people and am generally described as heteromantic (occasionally heteroflexible-romantic), but I'm not dying to have sex with every attractive person I see. In fact I just appreciate them from afar (if women, I usually envy their clothing styles and ability to wear them).

Like I understand fetishes, but at the same time, be proud of your sexuality. Don't just "go ace" because it is a fetish or something. I threw that in quotes because all these files are doing are instilling post hypnotic suggestions to throw off normal subconscious actions to otherwise sexual things the listener finds attractive.

[Jackstock]

I have never really seen that as asexuality if you just like to serve someone.
In fact, serving someone else exclusively can be pretty hot (and pretty normal, in my mind)

[radbaguy]

Thanks for sharing your experiences. I get it now, maybe it's not supposed to be an asexual thing, more a chastity like. (In my case). But it is a nice file tho. Thanks again.