by EMGsKink » October 21st, 2005, 8:14 am
To keep from spreading false information try this URL:
http://www.thebody.com/nmai/safersex.html
Personally I don't like to suck cock with a condom, so I don't use one for oral sex, but that said, the chances of infection via giving a blow job when the mouth has no sores and the gums are in good shape (ie no open sores or wounds) are less than unprotected anal or vaginal sex.
The thing to do is to discuss safer sex activities before you go into trance. Be honest about what you are willing to do. You need to decide how much of a risk you want to take.
As for being tested, any person with multiple sex partners should be tested at least once a year even if following all safer sex guidelines. The earlier it is detected the better for treatment.