mikejayuk wrote:Thanks for your suggestion but I think you have mis understood what I was looking for.
There are lots of files to help feminise men like myself, but I am looking for files that will make my female partner want to encourage me in my feminisation. I have not found any files which would address her inhibitions or suggest to her that she would enjoy feminising her partner. Currently she is bound by social conventions and doesn't see the why or any point in me wanting to be feminised.
There really aren't files like that on this site. As far as I know, it's not that no one has thought of it before, but that there are practical concerns. If your partner isn't into your feminization, how do you convince them to listen to the file? And sneaking it into their ears surreptitiously (while they sleep or in the background of their iPod, etc.) is unethical. So to make such a file seems like an effort which will not be useful to anyone.
I have sympathy for your dilemma -- it takes a while for a partner to accept a TG's situation, and many just can't handle it. There's lots of stuff to handle -- "why would anyone want to do that?" "I don't feel like the girl in the relationship anymore" "does this make you gay?" "does this make ME gay if I accept it?" "does this make me gay if I like it and I help you?" etc., etc.