A brief list of things I'm editing into myself, while I can remember them: more sexually uninhibited more assertive very aware of lover's touch submission is arousing give pleasure = get pleasure That's probably about right. Wife likes to run hands over me, and finds it amusing when I'm all twitchy-writhing; she always has. The past few days I've been twitchy with just a couple caresses, and become immediately erect. I don't seem to mind becoming aroused without the prospect of sex. I wouldn't want to give it up, but I'm so //happy// when I'm aroused, and it's fun for her to get me that way, I love it. I've been getting very aroused rubbing her feet & back. Last night at 1AM she woke up from restless sleep, and I rubbed her for over an hour, frequently very hard, and slept very well afterwards. *happy sigh* I like this self-editing. I suspect that if wife editted me I'd spurt on the spot. I may have to back off on the submissive programming...but it feels really good to be this excited, and isn't doing any harm. If you have any thoughts or comments, I would love to hear them; press the comment key or drop me a PM.