I met my wife 8 years ago on a BDSM website. we had a wild relationship based on a D/s lifestyle, we are more into a cerebral kind of love as she dominates me since the beggining. she loves me to be in chastity and when I do I feel so much more submissive to her, I do want to submit completely but I still have some manly kind of behaviour, autoritative or whatsoever that she hates strongly of course. I started to listen to this file thinking about her reaction when she would see my small weenie, and I still hold on that thought. I don't think that she would like me to be a sissy because she prefers to dominate a strong male (i am 1m93 and she is 1m62), she believes it is much more rewarding or something like that, when she gets mad at me i watch my feet and don't say a word and believe me I feel so much smaller than she is at that moment! I want her to be happy, proud of my submission to her... The chastity belt gave me the same kind of feelings that the curse/shrinking do, except that it is very painful after 3 week, believe me! I listened once again yesterday and watched the sissy video too but it had less effect on me this time. still I enjoyed it a lot, thinking about the present I will offer my wife of beeing so small. she will love it for sure but I will never tell her how it happend, because she would be so mad at me as she wants to be my only owner... I want to see the wicked grin on her face as she watch my hairless small pathetic weenie (I just shaved it), and this is why I hold on and keep on listening, I want her happy and sure that I won't have any sex with other girls( she's madly jealous of course :))... now I 'm sure that she will love it! Thank you headmistress squirrel for helping me in that direction... I wish I could become a sissy but she will not like that at all, I think... too bad for me... still I want to get small and be a sissy (maybe someday she could like it, if she sees the benefits of it?)