I was taking pueraria mirifica (orally and liquid applied to my nipples and areola), saw palmetto, and some days other estrogen enhancing supplements (e.g. fennel, black cohosh, and fenugreek -- I called it my triple whammy!). But now I'm scared. No one knows except me that I need to be a girl. How will I explain to my wife, my family? I have a physical scheduled for June. Is that an opportunity to come out or do I postpone changes until after that? I'm mixed up.