Dear 4everfemale, I read your request and tried to not cry. I never made a file like this. Tell that friend HAXSAW stated drinking and drugs? A bandage to try covering a deep, old wound. It never works. I read your reply and I am trembling, still. Are you good friends to this guy? Does he act rather odd when around crowds or company? Do you mind being his 'friend?' Do you care? A man like that? He needs a friend who will listen. Listen even if what he says sounds like, 'no big deal.' I am also retired from this. Sincerely, HAXSAW